Break Up With Whining, It’s Boring

You’re more attached to your “why not” and it only makes you more of a WEENIE. A weenie-whiner to be exact. If you’re still busy maintaining an emotional relationship with reasons why you can’t do things or be the person that you want to become then the best course of action is probably not to rain on the parade of all the rockstar humans doing just that. 

No one cares until you win and while hemmoraging all your worries and feelings about why your situation isn’t going as desired might feel good it’s a waste of time. Dump the woe is me. Put on your big kid pants and ask yourself; “Why am I telling this story what will I get by telling it?” having an audience for your drama does more for you than you think it keeps the status quo alive as it relates to the problems and situations you already feel stuck in. When your friends agree that life isn’t fair for you or that you have “bad luck” in relationships does holding court for that fix it or are you getting a pass to do it again. Does sharing your failures absolve you of guilt in the situation? You could’ve lost the 5lbs/10lbs/50lbs but you love food and it’s the only way you cope with stress. The; “I could be in good shape but I don’t have the time” and the “I don’t have the money for that” are all ultimately excuses in the world we live in YouTube can teach you to fix your face and fix your car all in under an hour depending on the severity of the situation. Are you actually buried under your problems or are you making a mountain out of a mole hill?

Life and everything you want out of it will boil down to the currency you are willing to pay to make it happen. You have to make the time or spend the cash to get it. It’s all currency and currently you’re not living your best life if you’re not claiming what makes you feel loved, happy, and supported. In all seriousness does not being vulnerable enough to ask for the life you want get to you faster or slower. Taking ownership of what your role is and what you want out of life is an explosive way to manifest what you want. Give yourself back the power to make things happen and you’ll be glad you did. 

I like to create solutions for myself and I’m no wimp when it comes to taking ownership of the metaphorical shit hitting the fan. Like real shit hitting the fan someone has to clean it up and whether your action or inaction caused the mess resulting in the shit storm you better grab some gloves and get to work on the issue.

Q 1.What do you want? Be specific.

A. I want to lose 15lbs, clean out my guest room, get in a new relationship

Q 2. What stopped you from doing this in the past?

A. I don’t know where to begin.

Q 3. What happens if you don’t do this?

A. You’re not happy.

The first answer might change but rarely do the second two. You can’t go anywhere you haven’t been by doing things you’ve always done. Break up with your excuses you’re boring yourself.

Help is always here,

Megan

email: stronger@sherlockfit.com